Pre-Nikah Questions Builder

Build a useful set of marriage questions based on your circumstances, such as study, children, living with parents, work, divorce or being a revert.

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One or both of us are studentsWe may live with parentsOne of us already has childrenWe are long distanceOne of us is a revertOne of us was previously marriedThere is a long-term health issue to discussWork and career expectations are important

10 questions worth discussing

What does practising Islam look like in your normal week?

How do you behave when you are angry or disappointed?

What debt or financial commitments would affect married life?

Where do you expect us to live in the first year?

How involved do you expect parents and in-laws to be?

What are your expectations around children and parenting?

What does privacy mean to you in marriage, including phones and social media?

How do you think household work should be handled?

What are the biggest things you think could cause conflict between us?

What would make you pause or end this proposal?

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