Marriage Readiness Check

Review the areas that usually need attention before marriage, including deen, money, housing, communication, family boundaries and expectations.

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What is actually ready, and what still needs work?

There is no percentage score. A marriage is not made safe or suitable by an 83% badge.

Deen and daily practiceWe have talked honestly about worship, Islamic priorities and the kind of home we want.

MoneyWe understand income, debt, spending habits and the lifestyle we can actually afford.

HousingWe know where we expect to live at the start and what privacy that setup gives us.

Family boundariesWe have discussed parents, in-laws, visits, support and how decisions will be made.

ChildrenWe have talked about whether we want children and our basic expectations around parenting.

Work and studyWe understand each other’s expectations around careers, study, childcare and household roles.

ConflictWe can disagree without threats, humiliation, pressure or disappearing for days.

Privacy and digital lifeWe have discussed phones, social media, friends, opposite-sex boundaries and personal privacy.

Your preparation picture

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Mark the areas above to build your preparation picture.

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