Marriage Planner

Turn the idea of getting married into a simple plan with the next practical steps for family, wali, money, housing, Mahr and Nikah preparation.

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Build your route to Nikah

Give us a few practical details and we will turn them into an ordered preparation list.

Where are you now?Target Nikah date, if you have oneAre the right family members involved?Is the wali involved?Have you agreed where you would live?Has the Mahr been clearly discussed?

Your preparation route

Add a target date if you want the planner to show the time available.

Now

Decide whether this is a real marriage intentionMove from a vague hope to a clear decision about whether you are ready to pursue marriage seriously.

Next

Bring the right family people into the pictureIf there is a serious potential spouse, avoid letting private contact become the whole process.

Early

Involve the wali properlyFor a bride, wali involvement should not be treated as a last-minute formality.

Before booking

Talk through the big compatibility questionsDiscuss deen, children, money, work, housing, family boundaries, privacy and how you both deal with conflict.

Before Nikah

Agree where married life will beginRenting, living with family or another arrangement can all have very different privacy and cost implications.

Before Nikah

Agree the Mahr clearlyRecord what is immediate, what is deferred and any timing that has actually been agreed.

Final preparation

Confirm the Nikah requirementsBride, groom, wali, two witnesses, Mahr, consent and the spoken offer and acceptance all need proper preparation.

Free guidance related to this tool

The calculator or planner helps organise the practical side. These articles explain the Islamic principles and the real-life issues around it.

Free guidance

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The £10 personal Islamic plan is separate from these free tools. It applies general Islamic principles to the facts you share and includes three follow-up questions. It is not medical, legal or other professional advice.

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